After i learnt the reason, my true past with my father, i must now learn how to forgive him and also understand that all he did is for the family. Day by day, i try to start conversation with him and spend time with him like watching tv, having breakfast with him. Before he was retrenched, he was always doing his own business at home and not bothering me and my sisters . However ,things got worse when he lost his job. Fortunately, both sister has already started working . This was a turning point of our lives. Suddenly, we started to feel that we lost the ‘’dad’’ that we once loved. Whenever he is at home, he will always find something to bother my sisters. One of them is that he would enter their room and started to scold if the room is messy. He has to understand that both my sisters are busy with their work and does not have the time to do what he wants them to. Each time my father and one of the sister argue, there will be shoutings in the house or worse, my father would hit my sister with his bare hands.My father is the kind of person who expects the best of his children , he wants his children to be perfect. However , he did not realise that he himself isn’t perfect either, easy said nobody is, and whenever we try to tell him the things that we don’t like about him, he will become furious and disagree of our words.He always says that he is the head of the family and we al have to respect him, yes its true we do, but his doings make us respect him in fear and force not by love and willingness.

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